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mactavish posted, I wrote
Nothing odd in that--except that I started to write "cattitude or Q" and realized that at this point, the same consideration would apply to adrian_turtle. This is part of why I don't label my relationships as primary or secondary: they are what they are, and they change.
I am a very fortunate Vicki.
mactavish posted, I wrote
I don't have veto power with any of my partners--but if any of them said "I don't think that's a good idea" I'd ask why, and take it seriously. And I'd give them similar information, if I had it about someone that one of my partners were interested in: that's part of caring for each other.
Nothing odd in that--except that I started to write "
cattitude or Q" and realized that at this point, the same consideration would apply to adrian_turtle. This is part of why I don't label my relationships as primary or secondary: they are what they are, and they change.I am a very fortunate Vicki.
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