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([personal profile] dragoness_e Nov. 24th, 2025 08:47 pm)
I thought we'd have more time together. He wasn't supposed to get dementia this young, and he isn't supposed to be dying in hospice now. He'll never get to read the books I'd planned to write, and he wanted to so much. We'll never get to play another TTRPG campaign together, and I had some ideas for one I really wanted to do with him. I'll never get to see Yosemite with him. We were supposed to have another 20 years together, at least. His father is still alive at age 92, and he should have lived at least that long. I won't get to retire and move north with him, and go on hikes in the woods with him.

I've been slowly mourning the possibilities being cut off one by one as the dementia advanced, but there was always a slim hope that it was a form of dementia that could be fixed or controlled with medication. Now there is no hope; he is dying. There are no more possibilities with him, and I grieve.
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([personal profile] lannamichaels Nov. 24th, 2025 08:07 pm)


As superhero movies go, this is a very good superhero movie. As regular movies go, I kept being annoyed about the seriously compressed timeline and some really basic suspension of disbelief, like "is anyone going to say Lex Luthor is lying about translation" because, uh. Also, how does anyone know Kryptonian? So many little things just drove me up the wall.

However! It was a good movie, and the Clark/Lois stuff was very well done, I actually really loved their interview/fight because it worked so well in with characterization, it didn't strike my "I cannot, I cannot, I cannot" that I tend to have about couples arguing.

The main effect of the movie was, after it was revealed that Lex had people going over every inch of every Superman fight so he could get a single strand of Superman's hair so he could clone him -- I went and reread some old favorite Smallville fics. Good times.

The movie also did something I noticed with the Knives Out 2: Glass Onion film, where it made the Cool Evil Rich Villain... not come off very compelling on the slash goggles. I did not walk out of this movie shipping Clark/Lex, even though I ship Clark/Lex. Lex Luthor, played by Why Do I Recognize Him Oh That's The Boy From About A Boy, is very well done and very well performed and is not a magnificent bastard and he has zero chemistry with Clark, but not in a way that detracts from the film. This is not a film where Clark and Lex have ever been on good terms; this is not a film where they even ever knew each other. There was nothing about the movie that was in the same flavor or theme as Smallville, but hey, always fun to go reread some stuff.

But for a movie that did Lois so well, did we have to have Eve The Awful Clingy Obsessive Wannabe Girlfriend with Jimmy who did not want to date her, just wanted info from her? That was so hard to endure. I think worse of the movie for making that decision, it casts a long tail on the movie even a week after I finished it, like "oh yeah so that was a movie that made me go reread some old fics from 20 years ago, and also had this unnecessarily misogynistic sideplotline played for laughs (?)".

Nathan Fillion also appeared to be treating this film as "I will do bad acting on purpose to show that my character is a buffoon" but mostly it just came off annoying.

I also have a nit to pick with this movie that is solely from watching it with the DVD closed captions, which kept noting when the main Superman theme was playing, which is: the soundtrack to this movie is ... well, it's got some perfectly acceptable pop songs peppered in. But the rest of it is just so bland.

But this movie is better than every MCU movie I've seen, with the exception of Captain America 2: A Good Spy Movie With I Guess Absolutely Zero Repercussions For The Worldbuilding Oh Well.

For the past ten years, Maria K. Alberto and I have been running the Tolkien Fanfiction Survey. This is a longitudinal study intended to give insight into beliefs and practices of Tolkien fanfiction readers and writers. We re-release the survey every five years, and I am very excited that we are on our third iteration!

Now I know a few of us around here are *ahem* fandom olds. However, even if you are no longer active in Tolkien fandom, if you read or wrote Tolkien-based fanfiction in the past, we want to hear from you! We are very interested in how beliefs and practices change over time and also in fandom generations (we even published an article based on the survey in the book Fandom: The Next Generation). So if you have fifteen minutes or so to spare, we'd love to hear from you!

To be eligible, you must be 18 or older and have written and/or read Tolkien fanfiction either currently or in the past. All levels of experience with Tolkien are welcome, whether you just saw your first film last week and wrote your first story yesterday or you've been doing this for decades. Readers and writers who work with Tolkien adaptations, like the Jackson films, the Rings of Power series, or Tolkien-based games, are encouraged to participate as well.

You can find the survey here.

Finally, if you know of any Tolkien fans or communities that might be interested in the survey, we greatly appreciate signal boosts!
This weekend (Friday through Sunday) I helped staff a table at Fables and Flames, a romantasy fiction con in its first year. Vicky has an ongoing m/m romantasy series (branching out in new directions from her contemporary m/m romance) and got an author invite, but it's hard to staff a vendor table alone so I helped set up/take down the displays, provided some company, and held down the fort when she wanted to go do some other con activities. I handed out a lot of cards and flyers, and even sold a few books!

(I also picked up cards for every other author present and bought more things -- scented candles, weighted plushies, scrunchies, a 3D-printed fidget toy -- than was probably wise, but that is only to be expected at a con. Also I love my new plushies with fierce devotion, so there.)

Word is that the con either broke even or came very close, which is excellent for a first-year event. Hopefully that means they will run it again next year. :)

Anyway the con was a lot of fun but also very tiring -- and I didn't even have to be "on" most of the time. Also once we packed up early on Sunday afternoon, we drove across the street to IKEA and spent a couple hours looking at sofa beds and other assorted things. As is typical for a trip to IKEA, I came away with more than I meant to buy. I am now the proud (?) owner of a slightly dinged-up "as-is" desk, a coat stand, two wooden storage crates, a bath mat (that was probably intended as a hand towel but pssht like I care), and a $5 print of a botanical illustration of a fig. And also a pack of cinnamon rolls, because reasons.

So that was my weekend.
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([personal profile] senmut Nov. 24th, 2025 06:31 pm)
AO3 Link | Training Opportunity (100 words) by Merfilly
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Star Trek: The Next Generation
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Tasha Yar, Worf
Additional Tags: Drabble, Slice of Life
Summary:

Yar shows Worf a flaw






Yar circled to the left, and Worf watched as he adjusted himself. When she lunged, he was as ready as he could be, and still she managed to foul his leg, and get him off balance. From there it was only two quick moves and he stumbled out of the circle they had made.

"You are a formidable warrior."

"So are you, but you're not accustomed to smaller, faster opponents who know how to use their body," Yar said. "So, joining my class?"

"Yes."

She smiled, then beckoned him in for another round. He took the invitation, eager to learn.
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([personal profile] affreca Nov. 24th, 2025 05:43 pm)
The cashew butter cookies are good, but these are better. I plan to make some once I get done with planned travel. Posting so I can find again. Original recipe

1 3/4 cups [230g] flour
1/2 tsp [2.5g] baking soda
1 1/2 cups [240g] chocolate chips
1 stick [115g] salted butter, at room temperature
1/2 cup [100g] granulated sugar
1/2 cup [100g] brown sugar
1/2 tsp [3g] salt
1 large egg [50g]
1/2 cup [125g] tahini
1 tsp [5g] vanilla extract
2/3 cup [90g] sesame seeds

Combine the flour and baking soda in a medium mixing bowl. Add in the chocolate chips into the dry ingredients.

Beat the butter, sugar, brown sugar, and salt in the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment for about 2 minutes, until a little lighter and fluffier. Scrape down the sides, and add the egg, tahini, milk, and vanilla. Beat at medium-high speed until silky-smooth and lighter in color (about 1 minute).

Add the dry ingredients to the wet ingredients, and mix at low speed just until it all comes together. Stop mixing once it’s combined.

Fridge the dough for at least 30 minutes.

Preheat the oven to 375°F.

Shape the dough into scant-1/4-cup blobs [50g]. Roll one between your hands until smooth, then roll in the sesame seeds, and then place on a prepared sheet pan. Gently press the dough ball’s top down slightly so it’s just a little flattened. Repeat with the remaining ones, leaving space between each cookie.

Bake for about 15 minutes, until the edges of the cookies are set, but the centers aren’t completely set
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⌈ Secret Post #6898 ⌋

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([personal profile] moon_custafer Nov. 24th, 2025 06:29 pm)
Found a whole YouTube channel about spiders, very informative, but I also like that the theme song is just:

(The video maker, his voice doubled with recording technology, singing lackadaisically) THESE are the SPIDERS in your HOUSE

Sometimes he changes it up: THESE are the SPIders in your YAAAARD.

This one also has some nice footage of St. John’s, Newfoundland: THREE DAYS with SPIDER SCIENTISTS

For the video on spider cognition: The MINDS of the SPIDERS in your HOUSE
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