Your sex is female, and so people assume that you have feminine gender whenever they know that. Yup, that's why we have the word 'stereotyping' :-)
I'm poor at subordinate and submissive roles*, too. There are some kinds of circumstances where I am happy to say 'what ever you want, within limits' - these are usually social occasions, where another person in the group is choosing what to do. Mostly, as soon as I perceive a potential problem or weakness, I start to rebel...
* Actually, I prefer to be second in command, because I'm irresponsible I think :-)
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Date: 2003-11-03 05:56 am (UTC)I'm poor at subordinate and submissive roles*, too. There are some kinds of circumstances where I am happy to say 'what ever you want, within limits' - these are usually social occasions, where another person in the group is choosing what to do. Mostly, as soon as I perceive a potential problem or weakness, I start to rebel...
* Actually, I prefer to be second in command, because I'm irresponsible I think :-)