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Redbird ([personal profile] redbird) wrote2025-04-15 07:00 pm

bad health news about my mother

Apparently the reason I hadn't heard from either her or my brother yesterday is that she fainted, went to the emergency room instead of her doctor's office, and then waited hours to be seen.

A CT scan found lung cancer, in both lungs. They're still waiting to talk to an oncologist, and my brother is on his way to London now. The three of us will be going to London in a few days, possibly as soon as Thursday, or maybe Saturday. My brother has a long layover in Charlotte, and is going to spend part of it looking at airline tickets for us, possibly using my mother's frequent flier miles for one or more tickets.

I spent some time this morning looking up travel-related things that we may not need, but will do no harm, and wondering about Oyster cards is better than doomscrolling. I also called my doctor's office and asked whether there were limits on where the patient can be for a telemedicine appointment. The receptionist said she thought that technically, I have to be in Massachusetts; we agreed that I can call back if I need to postpone that.

My gut was bothering me earlier, which is almost certainly from anxiety, but still has me a little nervous about this trip. (It's been just over a week since I saw the GI doctor.)
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[personal profile] gatheringrivers 2025-04-15 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
{{{HUGS}}}

(You wrote "ER instead of emergency room", but I think you meant something else?)
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[personal profile] beatrice_otter 2025-04-15 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry, that is awful.
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[personal profile] anne 2025-04-15 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll be thinking of you.
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[personal profile] ursula 2025-04-16 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, that's tough. I hope your travels go smoothly!
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[personal profile] petrea_mitchell 2025-04-16 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Oh no. I hope the trip goes as well as it can.
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[personal profile] conuly 2025-04-16 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs*
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[personal profile] otter 2025-04-16 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
That is bad news. I hope you all are able to travel there smoothly and support one another when you arrive.
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[personal profile] sabotabby 2025-04-16 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. That's so completely awful.
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[personal profile] ckd 2025-04-16 01:39 am (UTC)(link)

Oof. I hope your travel goes smoothly.

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[personal profile] kate_schaefer 2025-04-16 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
Have a safe trip, and may it all go as well as possible.
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[personal profile] sine_nomine 2025-04-16 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
Sending support and strength to all. Travel safely!
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[personal profile] lcohen 2025-04-16 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
i'm so sorry. i hope everything will go as well as possible.

[personal profile] cosmolinguist 2025-04-16 05:09 am (UTC)(link)

I'm so sorry.

If I can help with any more logistics about your trip/what London is like these days, I'm very happy to.

If you'd like a distraction while you're there, I can probably arrange to be in London and hang out.

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[personal profile] hobbitbabe 2025-04-16 06:21 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear that. Wishing you all smooth travels.
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[personal profile] cmcmck 2025-04-16 08:52 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear this.

Hugs to all.
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[personal profile] oursin 2025-04-16 09:16 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear that. Sending all good thoughts to all of you.
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[personal profile] umadoshi 2025-04-16 11:28 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs quietly*
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[personal profile] julian 2025-04-16 12:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, that's no good. Glad you guys are going to see her.
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[personal profile] bibliofile 2025-04-16 01:11 pm (UTC)(link)
<3 <3 <3
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[personal profile] thistleingrey 2025-04-16 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad she went in, wait or no. Hope your travels go smoothly!
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[personal profile] skibbley 2025-04-16 04:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry to hear that news. Hope your mother gets good care.
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[personal profile] vass 2025-04-17 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
Fucking hell, I'm so sorry. Best wishes to you and her.