More confirmation that Judaism is really a household religion, and even synagogue works better if its closer to household size. I once attended a big synagogue Pesach seder, and it just didn't work for me spiritually.

The UAHC prayerbook was newly retranslated in the 70s, but the gender problem wasn't dealt with. We just alter it as we go (and add "God of Sarah, Rebekah, Rachel, and Leah," of course).